I got a good update for everybody.

My 401k loan is paid off, I have a 15 day waiting period and I can initiate another one. This will allow me to do everything that I need to do. So come the end of the month I'll be looking for my own place. Also, it's now been almost 2 weeks since I have quit smoking. I've also been getting out more and playing disc golf every weekend with some friends and our group is getting bigger. Been lots of fun playing. Also I've been starting up my own little side business making decals which has been going pretty well also.

As for the W I haven't heard anything from her and I'll be hiring the attorney and filing once I get my 401k loan. Ready for this to be behind me and move forward.


M(32) W(30)
Together 12yrs
Married 2yrs
ILYBNILWY 11/23/18
EA Discovered 3/20/19

In House separation 11/26/18 - 11/29/18 & 1/10/19-3/20/19
W Moved out 3/20/19
M Moved out 5/31/19
W Filed for D 3/3/2020