I go to my first appointment with the counselor on Wednesday. It is during his work hours. Do I just go and not tell him? Or do I tell him I'm going? Or tell him ????
Does he need to know? I don’t think he does. It’s for you.
Personally I wouldn’t tell him anything in your situation. He’s doing his own thing and you should too. They’re just going to be drastically different things.
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