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[Ready2Change]

Oz,

I do not think your wife is cheating on you based off what you have told us. I have a habit of buying things for my lady but not giving them to her right away....IE have something ready in case she gives you something, but do not initiate.


Personally, I would have several different cards, a simple set of ear rings or necklace, maybe a plant...


Normally I would say make plans to go out alone, but I don't think that is good advise for you...unless you have rose colored glasses on still. Make plans to be really busy around the house.



Be prepared for the worse case, prepare for some unexpected interactions



W:"Bla bla bla you forgot our anniversary bla bla bla bla"
H"I did not forget. it was my understanding that you did not want to celebrate"
Then get ready to listen and validate.