I already have my own thread, but I have a question specific to sandi’s rules, so I’m hoping this is the right place to ask?
My H has said repeatedly that he wanted a a wife who would be his friend (the clear implication being that I was not a friend to him). I’m trying to figure out the best approach to this; I think I should do a 180 on this and show that I was/am his friend. BUT, after a lot of cake eating on his part I believe, and have made it clear to him, that he doesn’t deserve my friendship outside of our marriage. I’m trying to figure out which way to go on this, as I’m worried that maybe my withholding of my friendship (by way of scarce conversation and the like) has been a lot of “more of the same” in his sites. I welcome any and all thoughts!
