Thank you! It is repulsive. I think it's disrespectful to me for him to continue a behavior that jeopardizes our marriage and a behavior that's inappropriate for a married man and a behavior that is hurtful to me. I didn't answer his MULTIPLE calls today. I had an appointment this morning and then took some time out for just me to exercise and think. He knew I had an appointment today. I ignored his texts and calls while I exercised. I thought it was good to be unavailable for a little bit. I ALWAYS answer my phone but not today . He continued to call when I got home but I had a meeting on the phone and ignored his calls. He called ALOT. I did finally answer his texts with a simple "Just got out of a meeting. " I decided I was leaving before he got home. I grabbed some of my relationship books and took off right after work. I did text him "Got some errands to run and other things to do. I'll see you later." He replied 'OK babe.' As persistent as he was to make contact with me, I was a bit surprised by his response. He talked to her today for about a half hour today. She wants to see him. He replied he 'was on a short leash' and she said she thought I would loosen it by now. All I have said to him is that I would rather he not visit with her or the guy she lives with. Maybe it was easier to blame me than say he didn't want to see her or whatever. I don't know. I just know the entire evening is mine.
. He continued to call when I got home but I had a meeting on the phone and ignored his calls. He called ALOT. I did finally answer his texts with a simple "Just got out of a meeting. " I decided I was leaving before he got home. I grabbed some of my relationship books and took off right after work. I did text him "Got some errands to run and other things to do. I'll see you later." He replied 'OK babe.' As persistent as he was to make contact with me, I was a bit surprised by his response. 