Originally Posted by crdcheck
I saw on another thread that someone was saying that women don't move out for space, they move out to be with someone else. Wondering if that is the deal here... I mean, it doesn't really matter but would help me to understand her rush.


That's me, though I have to admit to poaching from another anti-divorce author (not MWD). And if you think about it, it makes sense. Most wives that move out are in one of three camps:

1. In an active affair
2. Want to find someone new to start sleeping with ASAP
3. Want to get a separation and D to eventually meet someone new

There is a rare 4th camp where they really just don't like being married or being with someone at all and therefore are leaving just to be on their own, but I would argue this constitutes less than 1% of WAWs.

So no matter if it is 1-3, essentially she is leaving to be able to sleep with someone else.


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