I can see you were having a rough time the last couple days, sorry to hear that.
Originally Posted by SteveS
there hasn't really been anything close to a clean break.
This bothers me too. It is probably part of the reason why you have the emotional swings. At some point you'll get tired of being her finance educator, political passion project advisor, and this guy she is so attracted to but can't see outside of MC.
I certainly understand why going to that place physically brought back memories. In time you may totally forget about it.
Originally Posted by SteveS
I also was thinking on the flight in that the life I'm living - lots of travel, lots of work, professional success - I don't know if it's really what I want anymore.
I certainly understand that. I would not take a job with that much travel. And if I did it would have to be the type of money that would blow me away, and even then, I would know that I wouldn't do it forever. To me, it's important to have good food, family/friend time, and fun experiences. I need plenty of income and success to live a certain lifestyle too. You can balance it.
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