Not struggling quite as much

[NicoleR]

Jim,

That makes complete sense to take a break. That seems like the best decision to avoid hurting anyone (or getting yourself further hurt). If someone loves you they'll be willing to give you space. I'm sure about that. I'd love to see you and your wife re-unite. It seemed like you and your wife still managed to have enjoyable times even during the divorce process. If it works you could just delete the past two years from your memory although your wife will inherit the new-and-improved Jim. You deserve the new-and-improved wife too so it's good you're using caution!