WW wants to reconcile (thread 3)

[oops13]

She seems 0% committed to reconciliation and I think she's just cakewalking. She says she doesnt want the marriage right now but doesnt want to end it because she might have regrets. Shes still acting like this is something that happened to her and not something she chose to do. Shes still "in the fog" of the OM.

I deserve better than this and her. She never gave me a chance. Im afraid of life without her, but I'm thinking that is my best option and it's time for me to start recovering without her.

I know (even if I dont feel it) that this can't work unless shes fully committed. She still blames me. Even though I love her, this is done.