I'm just so hurt right now I don't know what to do. I called a friend last night and he actually stayed until 3am just talking to me, helped out some. I just feel so betrayed after her telling me she respected me and all during the divorce talk. Obviously she doesn't. I had to confront her about it and she finally admitted to sleeping with him during the camping trip and that they been cuddling in bed at my "aunts" house. I was like people just don't cuddle in bed.
Originally Posted by neffer
Stay strong there Leo. It“s all about you and your D now. You need to get your respect back.
Keep GAL, detach and focus on yourself.
I“m sorry man.
(((Leo)))
Thanks Neffer. I am trying, like I mentioned earlier I was actually doing alright and fine with going through with the divorce. But when I found out this weekend that she is already sleeping with another dude, that drove the dagger deep.
Originally Posted by DejaVu6
So sorry Leo. It is amazing how quickly some people move on. It is so they don’t have to face themselves and the consequences of the choices they made / are making. She is in the throws of infatuation and new “love”... it is a powerful drug that LBS can’t really compete with, I’m afraid. It will fade. It always does. I know that doesn’t help you right now but just keep working on you and know that you will not feel this way a year from now....or even six months. The hurt fades eventually and you start to see new possibilities in this new reality that you did not ask for. Know that you are not alone... we are all right there with you. (((HUGS)))
I still try to make sense of all of this. On how someone can move on from a marriage so quickly, she claimed that she couldn't help it - it just happened. When I asked her several weeks ago, why do you want to file so quickly. She mentioned I just have no feelings for you and its not coming back. I want to move on and if I find another person in the future I don't want it to hold me back. All along she had this OM already. I know it is selfish, but I hope this new found love for her fade. I had to take off work today because I was so hurt but finding this out this weekend.
