Fine tuning my inner Me

[peacetoday]

MY XH said similar..they are better off without me

I actually think there may be truth to what they say ..
Your H is probably doing things that you would not approve of and he is not going to stop

he may not want to subject you to his true lifestyle but the OW may be ok with it

also the visions of the OW and H living happily ever after is another lie we may beleieve

but as time goes on...you will clearly see his craziness and desperation
maybe there are a few MLCers that finally get it together but most go downward and the OW goes down as well
if the R lasts

I saw this in my XH life
at 40 he went from being a sober responsible man--owning a business,a home 2 kids , friends, family ect..
to
marrying a 28 year old drug addict,losing his business, home and family
moving to MW and working as a clerk in a store, drinking, using prescriptions and becoming a desperate unhappy man

I dont wish that on him or anyone but each person has to be free to choose their lifestyle, health ,recovery or downfall