Maybe I know what to do 6

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I’m still struggling on figuring out how to make myself more attractive though. Ditto on the seducing side too

If you confidently confront your biggest fear, you are projecting strength. This is attract to your lady. If she leaves, you will be fine...better than fine, you will thrive.


One key is to let your wife be as emotional as she needs to be. You control your emotions. When she is sad, you are safe to come to. When she is angry, you are safe to come to. When she scared, you are safe to come to. You listen and understand her emotionally. If she needs space, you don't chase after her. When she needs someone to listen, you are safe to come to. Even if it is what you do not want to hear.

Just be there and study her face while she talks. Look at things you enjoy about her. Look at her eyes, then down to her lips...think about kissing them, but do not act...go back to her eyes. Think about good times you have had with her.


Google the feeling chart images:
Emotions and Feelings Charts | Three to five for Twenty-Four




Attraction and seduction is like a big onion with many layers.