Hey Steve sorry to hear that you aren’t feeling great. I am similar in that I will be doing very well not thinking of W and feeling pretty detached, and then some small interaction or new information about her will cause me to have a sad day. Just remember that it will get better in time.

LH told me a great quote today: Someday this will all be a distant memory. It hurts now, probably one of the tougher things we all have been through. But in a few years time, with or without her, we will feel far less emotional about these tough days.

I always try to go crazy with GAL on days I’m feeling down. Doesn’t help if you’re just sitting around thinking about the sitch ya know?

Take care bud


Me: 26 W:26
T:6 M:1 S: 1
BD: 3/26/19
DBing: 4/12/19
Separation: 5/20/19
I filed: 8/7/19