W, First off don't validate $hitty behavior. Remember that everything right now is about respect so your boundaries should be around high she treats you.
I guess this where I get confused. When do I validate and when do I set boundaries? I must be really mixing this up. I thought her feelings are her feelings and I should validate them. Obviously after a little while if she gets hostile verbally that I should say I am done with this conversation and walk away.
At this point it really doesn’t matter what I do it won’t change anything. I just have to get my respect back at this point. But when I feel like I am doing that everyone tells me I am arguing. So basically just walking away in a nice way is setting boundaries and getting my respect back?
M:42 XW:41 T:19 M: 15 D:13 S:10 BD: 8/10/18 Moved out: 8/18 Moved in: 9/18/18 Moved out: 4/22/19 D papers signed 11/4/19 D final 3/18/20
