Curtis when I read these posts by you it really concerns me about your well being. You want to text your W "Happy Anniversary" WTF? Are you going to send her flowers too? The term "Happy Anniversary" implies your Anniversary is happy times. Come on man please please please start to respect yourself.
I wish AS wouldn't have posted that. You're no where near where he was at and at the time he had zero knowledge of another male. Neither of you have come close to moving on emotionally and would have 100% expectations.