I thought I was doing okay. Really. The being ‘not okay’ is back with a vengeance. I’ve done the 180 to perfection (almost) but still his crisis continues and even deepens. He is slowly but surely slipping away. In the beginning he still wanted contact, but not so much anymore.
Same ow,,,the strength of that R is astonishing. It’s a long distance thing. He travels to see her all the time. At least 50% of the time he is with her. When he isn’t, he calls her constantly, even when both of them are at work. They spoke for over 90 minutes on Friday morning alone. This isn’t that u usual either.
I’ve been patiently waiting for this to fizzle out but all it does is get stronger and stronger. They seem to be the exception, not the rule. How on earth will he ever see the end of MLC when this R is so intense?
I miss my husband terribly and I’m tired of pretending I’m okay when I’m not. I’m tired of pretending to him that I’m over him when all I want to do is tell him how much I love him.
I thought I was moving on successfully. Clearly I am not. The ache in my gut is always there. To lose someone you love to another person has to be the worst.
He had no intention to divorce but now his ow says he needs to end his emotional attachment to me. So now he is looking into a divorce. I think it’s really because she wants to marry him.
How do I end this h3ll Im in? Agree to the divorce and just let her have him? I can’t take much more of this.
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