Midlife wife crisis9

[Wolfman]

Another rough day. My w was just spitting fire. All because I went to the house to pick up my d and my d gave me a hard time as always that she doesn’t want to go with me. So of course w takes out on me that it’s my fault that we should have left right away. I asked my w a couple of days before if it was ok for me to bring some stuff over to make breakfast. She said it was fine. Now because my d doesn’t want to leave right away I get blamed. My d was saying she didn’t feel good but every time she has to go with me it’s the same excuse. W said it’s not fair that she is a prisoner in the house. I said I understand how you could feel that way it must be frustrating. She gets so mad when I validate. She goes oh I know you know. She said it must be nice you can come and go as you please. But I am stuck here all the time. I’m saying to all of you. I don’t know how she could say that. No one and I mean no one goes out more than my w. She is literally only in the house to sleep. Again I said I can see how that can be frustrating. Then she says, you say your goI guess to change and nothing has changed. I asked can you tell me what hasn’t changed. She said the communication. You were suppose to feed them then go. I said I am sorry that it is not working out like it was suppose to. I went back into my d room at that point and said to her I’m leaving with brother and I will be back in an hour when I get home you need to be ready or we are going to have a bad day. Then I left with s. Oh wait as I was leaving she said you guys like to torture me it’s not fair how all of you treat me. I really wanted to laugh out loud. Then I left. Man I have never seen someone so angry at life like her!!! She is just a miserable human being. Oh and I kept thing of all of you about validating. A couple of times I was going to lose my cool and I thought about all of you. Thank you. I hope that was better.