Awesome thanks for the info U. I will look into it. W had asked that we talk about it today. But as I am LRT I’m not gonna text her first lol. They say actions over words so I guess i will start researching and calling mediators to get the ball rolling.
After LH asked me if I wanted D, I replied that I could be patient. But after thinking about it for a bit I realized how numb I am to the idea of D. A few months ago D scared me and I wanted to do anything to avoid it. Now I just think how even if we Ded, nothing in my life would change. I would still get up in the morning and my life would have no changes. I know I keep saying it but I’ve made some great changes and everyone I know has noticed. Feeling good and detached. I know it hasn’t been all that long but I was the one in the R with self differentiation. I was the one already GAL. So in a way DBing just helped me to double down and detach faster. Thanks all
