Is it over? pt.2

[SoTorn]

Yes, you work on yourself to impress yourself. You work on yourself so that you can take a step back and say "I changed for myself, I bettered myself for myself, I did that, all by my damn self and for me"

Once you get to the point where you love yourself and are happy with yourself because you know you changed and know you are a better man, you will not care what she thinks.

Yes you can have hope that she may come back. But again, that is not your drive.

You need to accept that shes gone. Its done, its over.

Pull your pants up and do things that make you happy. It takes a lot of work to get to the point where you are content with any outcome. But you can do it and if you focus on yourself and drop any and all expectations that there is something you will do that will magically make her snap out of it.

You will know that you are detached because her actions will not affect your emotions. You will essentially be indifferent to what she does. It wont affect you. You will be strong and happy no matter what.

But you need to understand that it will take strength, courage and time to get there.