W: Quite frankly I am afraid to be in the same house as you. I am going to have my parents come over and supervise. H: I hear that you are afraid to be in the same house. I am not sure I am comfortable with that either, so this is good news. Sounds like a good idea.
And maybe H" I want us both to feel safe."
W: Saying "I am glad that you are still afraid of me" is clearly threatening and intimidating me and I will tell my lawyer. H:"Feel free to share this email string with your lawyer."
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Normally if I was going to have a phone conference about something I would ask for an agenda to make sure I'm prepared to discuss the items that needs to be addressed. Should I ask her for an agenda for her desired phone call? I don't want to be unprepared so she can steamroll me, yet I don't want to appear to be needy and controlling either. Which is the right approach in the opinion of the group?
I do not trust your W. Remember getting off the plane to meet her. She is evil. Get a time set. Bring some witnesses.
Record with your phone if needed.
H:"I have been thinking about what you recommended the other day and I think it is a good idea that we have a couple people making sure things go as quickly and smoothly as possible. I will be bringing my sister (or other non-threatening female)"
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
