I just found this post. Thank you Zues. I'm printing off and keeping in my night table and reading it until it's imprinted in my mind. Here I am 2 months after BD and thinking "well, that last week was a little better". Baloney. He needs to make the moves, not throw me little crumbs. I will stop analyzing every conversation, and continue to get on with my life, as difficult as it is sometimes. If he catches up, so be it. If not, so be it.
Me: 57 H:60 Married: 25 yrs DB #1 June 4/19 "I love you forever" June 14/19 DB#2: June 19/19 ILYBINILWY