Not really. I am looking at the family dynamic. Looking to keep us intact for our kids. These are fixable problems. Have you ever had a problem you couldn’t fix and asked someone for help and they fixed it for you? Because you couldn’t see the problem? That’s what’s going on here, she is not acting rationally. I know this is her thinking NOW. And there is nothing I can do right now because she doesn’t see it. So yeah I want to fix it because she doesn’t see the problem and I do t want her regretting this d because she was acting emotionally and not logically. I can see how it looks like it’s what I want but I want what’s best for the family.
Wolf, you and I share the same beliefs and values when it comes to our family. One of the main reasons we’ve put up with these horrible sitches for so long. The logic speaks for itself, but our WW won’t listen to it. I hope and pray that one day both of our W’s do. I can attest how difficult it is to remain patient, wait, and resist the urge to step in and help her. Stay strong Wolf, you are a great role model for your kids. Keep standing and hold onto that vision of how great your MR will be and how happy your family will be together in the future.
Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16 PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18 PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19 R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20 W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20
