My EXWW almost ditched us all. The pull from OM was so strong she was going to up and move to his home state, where he lives with his wife, using the guise of "work wants me to move".

This was when she thought I didnt know she was cheating. She was going to work in his home state and come "visit" us every two weeks for a weekend.

I had not confirmed her A yet but I knew what was going on. I told her that I felt she would be choosing work over her family. I told her my feelings that she would essentially be ditching her family for work. It royally pissed her off that I was not on board with that.

Before OM she always planned on us moving as a family if her work afforded such an opportunity.

Of course now, even though we are D, her kids know why we are D so she decided to stay in our home town.

I honestly wish that she would just leave and give me full custody. But she wont.

Last edited by SoTorn; 08/02/19 02:36 PM.
M:16
T:21
H(me) 38
WW: 38
S11 D16 D19
Red Flags of A: March 2018
ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018
Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018
BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018
D Filed: March 27, 2019