R2C. My intentions are to get some skills in the flirting and turning a woman on dept
I have to work everyday at turning my woman on. Things that worked in the past, might not work now or in the future. It is always a constant challenge.
How do I make her laugh? Laughing is a response to surprise. What she laughed at today, she might smile about the next time. The next time, no response. I do it again, I get the "Really??" look.
Same thing with turning her on. I am on skype 4x a day with her while I am gone. We will be talking about the kids or the dogs...Then out of the blue, I will say "Stop that..I know what you are thinking"... implying she is having dirty thoughts. With her, my communication is all about seduction. I entertain her. Confuse her. Make her miss me. make her wish she was here with me. If she is relaxed, I will tell her what I would be doing sexually with her if I was with her.
Of course, this will not work for you RIGHT NOW. You need to constantly be testing the waters and adjust.
Harmless flirting is different than seduction. You have intent with seduction. Harmless flirting is making the other person feel good.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712