Manta,

We're here for you! If there was a way to contact you in real life I'd seriously accompany you to a potential divorce session to support you! That's just too much for anyone to handle on their own. I'm sure her day will come but I feel so sorry for the innocent child that will be born into this mess. Her downfall will be the child's downfall too so there are no winners. I hope you get to start over though with a new partner with whom you can start a real, stable, loving, lifelong family.