Hi Manta, what a terrible person your wife is!! It sounds like she and so many of the spouses who left here have no conscience whatsoever. They lie to us and they lie to their affair partners. They live a double life. I guess divorce is a step in the right direction for a marriage that can't be saved but I really, really hope you don't have to see her in person. That's just excessive cruelty if you do. I feel so sad for what you're going through.
