Hey LH, not looking for a reaction, just kinda over my sitch at this point and said what I felt. We could D tomorrow and nothing would change for me. I’m perfectly fine with Ding at this point because we have basically been Ded the past few months in all ideology but not legally. I was hoping to see improvements but I have seen none in her. I on the other hand have made many incredible changes and feel that I am the best version of myself I have been in years. Like I said in my last post, I have no interest in R with the person she has become.
Hey U, it’s just a trial separation but we drew up an agreement before she moved out. Yeah my L put the rough numbers through the calculator which is what I’m going off. I definitely feel that I’m currently paying more than I should which is limiting me in other areas of life. I would prefer to avoid a crazy legal battle that would cost a lot. I need to do some research and see if I can make this process cost effective.