Lol that was interesting. So yeah I said. “When we D I will be paying X amount. I want to change the agreement so I am paying X amount.

Her: “Okay Hallzy. When we D the support amount will be figured out at that time. My L said it would be more.”

Me: “My lawyer showed me X amount. I think we should do a settlement soon.”

Her: “Can we talk about this tomorrow.”


Not sure why but I felt okay with this. I don’t like the situation I’m in. If we were to D soon, nothing in my life would change compared to how it is now. I don’t like the feeling of waiting around and want to get on with my L. WW is still deep in the fog I believe and her new behavior and loss of her previous morals is incredibly unattractive to me. Until she does some inward thinking and improves herself,I don’t want to have an R with that person. May have jumped the gun here but I feel okay with what I said. I guess we will see what happens tomorrow but she seemed like she wanted to avoid the conversation. Thanks

Last edited by Hallzy9; 08/01/19 09:36 PM.

Me: 26 W:26
T:6 M:1 S: 1
BD: 3/26/19
DBing: 4/12/19
Separation: 5/20/19
I filed: 8/7/19