So I know it’s only been 3 months since W moved out. Pretty much in holding pattern as I’ve been LRT/NC unless related to S. W hasn’t mentioned D or mediation for about a month now.
The problem: we rushed through the separation agreement. Anyway after talking to my lawyer I know that if we go through with D I will be paying like 300 dollars less a month. My dumb a** agreed to pay for all of my sons daycare tuition when legally my lawyer said I should only be responsible for half. And while I’m doing okay financially, an extra 300 a month could go a long way and might provide me some great vacation opportunities in the future.
I want to continue with my DBing as I think I’ve done really well lately. I know it’s only been like 5 months since BD and I shouldn’t expect much change in that time but what are my options right now. I really don’t want to pay that extra money and as that number is written on the separation agreement I think my only option is to file or mediate? Being in limbo is no fun either lol. Any advice is appreciated.
