Hi all, so I have been translating some of the divorce papers, that I received in German from my wife's lawyer in Germany today. I'm Irish, wife is German and left Ireland in February to live with AP. I specifically asked her to make sure to send an English copy also, as my lawyer would ask for it. She didn't. One lie on it was she stated that our marriage ended in May 2018, this isn't true. She started the affair with the AP at the end of May last year. DDay was in August. I still believe that she did this so her AP didn't feel guilty. She told him a lot of lies that the EX GF of AP confirmed. "We were sleeping in separate beds. Not having sex anymore, I'm going to divorce Jack, I never wanted to get married, etc" However in June/July last year, we got mortgage approval and were looking at buying a home together. I have all the I love you messages, mortgage documentation, photos of us together from that period, etc. I just don't understand this obvious lie. From what I can understand, she wants to settle out of court, as we have no kids or joint assets and is looking to arrange a meeting... I really don't want to fly to Germany to see her pregnant, with AP smiling. My lawyer will demand an English translation of these official documents, as it's only fair. I would do the same if sending any legal documentation to her.


BH: 36 WW:33
M: 2
Relationship: 6 years. Dday: Aug 2018
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1st mention of D: 30/09, 2nd Mention 17/02/2019
LRT: Oct 2018
WW & AP: EA & PA since June 2018 (Moved country and in with AP Feb 2019)