Holy cow, was just looking at your timeline, it's been over two years since your W moved out?? It doesn't seem like it's been that long! Good luck, I know this is a tough decision. I tried thinking what I would do in your position, if my XW suddenly said she wanted to recon. I have to admit there's a part of me that would want to just because it would kind of feel like "victory" if that makes sense. Like saving the M is the goal rather than getting back together with W. Does it feel that way to you at all? But if I write out a ledger of pros and cons my R with my GF definitely has a much longer list of pros. Still though, very difficult decision indeed.
