Read Cadet's welcome message (the first response you got). All links.
Act friendly, upbeat, pleased, content.
Do not start conversation but fully engage when he does. If he launches into R talks, listen and validate. Do not be overly sharing. Treat him like you would a friendly cashier at the store.
If you suspect any chance of a PA do not make love. Protect your sexual health. If there is no PA and you are sure, then if he initiates you can, but attach NO MEANING TO IT. It doesn't mean things are improving.
Read the detachment thread.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
