YES THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT IT IS AND WHAT WE TOLD YOU IT WAS!!!! I'm not yelling, just emphasizing that point You're firmly in the friendzone with her. Emotional support when she needs it, nothing to her when she doesn't need it. It's interesting that you said you feel like you got duped, I think you did too, but not by her. Her actions are very consistent and predictable for a WAS. You were duped by your own feelings and expectations.