I understand how it made her feel and i truly regret it, we just can’t seem to get over it and i can’t seem to earn her forgiveness. To me it isn’t as bad as cheating because i was on the same meds for a few months and started noticing adverse affects from it, so it came from a place if concern about her and us, and partly me trying to blame our problems on the meds. My friend told her while it was petty it wasn’t anything we couldn't get over same with communication. She said the doctor thing was her deal breaker
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And they all say something is the "deal breaker". For my W it was one night she had taken our D to a high school basketball game. At the game pizza is $2/slice. So she ran my D and kids up to a local place to get a $5 large pizza. I checked where they were and noticed she was not at the game. I called and asked what they were doing and she said she ran up to get a pizza? I was like "What? Why are you doing that?!?"
She took that as me treating her like a child. And that she couldn't get over it. It has been nearly 2 years, a BD and an almost divorce later, and now she is over it. Give it time. AND STAY POSITIVE!!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
