Pick target carefully you said. What am I looking for ?
What are your intentions? What reaction are you looking for? What emotional state is this person in? Do they appear open? How dod they act with the people before you?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712