Why are you moving out? Seems that since you are the primary caregiver you should stay in the family home.
I would stop reiterating that D is not what you want. You stated it once and that's enough. Her threats are probably to make sure you're on the hook as plan b.
I have a hunch that the ea is still going on and she knows it's wrong but can't end it due to the addictive nature of an affair. If not she's probably looking for that high again.
I second this bolded part. She's using it against you. She doesn't respect you.
She is doing crazy stuff too. Maybe read some of the older affair busting stuff. I see her crying out for attention and help over and over again, risking jail to carry on an affair with a minor? Or is this college? Either way it's highly questionable. Given that you use the word "holiday" I take it you're somewhere in the UK. That word always gives me a laugh, I find our differences (UK & USA) quite interesting and cool. But on the other hand, if you're in the UK, most of that society is going to see a teacher/student relationship as highly inappropriate, morally wrong, and potential civil and legal liability. It's scary.
I love how strong you've gotten in the last year. I can see your growth. You did great there. I did notice some controlling behavior as well on your part, but I don't know that you're still doing that. What do you want to happen with the MR ultimately?
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
