-Another update- Reminder we are both Active Duty Military
H left yesterday. I texted him and asked how the kids are doing and he said he dropped D off and she seemed fine at the daycare center
I told him that's great and I said safe travels!!!
He wrote back. Thank you and thanks again for letting me stay with the kids it was truly wonderful.
I'm going to respond (probably via email) and say...
The next time you put money or work as a priority over spending time with your children, I will not be there to fix the situation to accommodate your poor planning.
(Initially I told him that he could NOT stay with me and that he would need to get a hotel. When I did that, he said he would have to shorten the time with the kids because he couldn't afford the car and lodging cost, so I told him he could stay with us, but that he needed to go out of state to visit his family for a portion of it)
cont..You left this family and have moved on with plans that do not include our family. I am still trying to find my way and I would appreciate that you respect my privacy and space while I go through this. I was thinking about maybe adding that playing house and faking the family is not a part of my healing and finding my way.
