A year on and standing

[SteveLW]

Tosmile, in general I think you are handling things well now. Obviously if you have been reading here for a while then you know what to do and not to do.

I think the most telling part of her recent behavior is this:

"Next up, she started to come asked me how much my lawyer is charging? She said divorce is going to cost unnecessary money and since my lawyer's fee is lower, why not we proceed the filing through my lawyer? I told her, my lawyer is there to represent my best interest. Divorce is what u seek for not what I want. So if you like to proceed, please seek your own legal assistance. Even if you look for my lawyer now, he will not take up your case as that would be conflict of interest. Then she backed off and said noted on that. "

This is typical lazy WW behavior. They want a D but they want to do no work on the D. So they try to make the LBH miserable so they'll file for D. Stand your ground until YOU are ready to end the madness. Your sitch reminds me a lot of another poster's sitch. I'll try to find his threads.