Thank you, just had to vent for a little bit. Tonight my wife went out and i acted like i didn’t care, said she looks good and have fun and that’s it. She texted me asking if i could meet at her moms to pick her up and i said yeah i can probably be there by then, i said probably to give her the sense that i wasn’t sitting around twiddling my thumbs waiting on her, i got her something to eat before all this for when she got home just to continue acts of kindness, but didn’t present it like i hadn’t been doing anything so she can wonder about me a little. On the drive home she said i guess i’ll put the air mattress in the makeup room and sleep in there then, i didn’t respond because i knew that was a trap, she was trying to get me to argue or break down, so i get the bed and i acted like i’m not gonna argue with her or let her lure me in, made her think i was doing my own thing while still showing i care.. did i play this out right? When i said i can probably be there she texted back “ok probably?”
