Hi

Im sorry things did not work out the way you wanted or hoped

I dont know your story well-
but when I read your post I thought...maybe you were being saved from something by her leaving quickly

If it is true that she opted to stay with OM , who is physically abusive--
this also says a lot about hwere she is
and unfortunately many MLCers affair down as well as tumble down into very dangerous lifestyles
sounds like You have custody and seems that your children will be safer without being exposed to her lifestyle at this time

Continue to move forward whether you continue to stand or not
continue to pursue your happiness and highest goals-


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow