I’m just upset because it’s going to force an anniversary convo between W and I.
No it won't. Tell your W to disregard it. Period. Quit making excuses.
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And I was planning on just a quaint “happy anniversary “ the morning of then off to work then play that evening by ear.
Why would you do that Oz?
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My mom will ask why and then she will pry and then pry some more then she will tell me I am a bad son and remind me of how great a mother she was and then tell me how her kids are awful to her. Then when she hangs up with me she will start blowing up Ws phone and asking questions and prying for info from her and wanting to know how our M is and going crazy on my W
I'm starting to see a pattern here. Your W has no respect for you. Your mom has no respect for you. Hell Oz, I'm having a lot of trouble respecting you. Because you refuse to listen to anything we tell you and man up. You constantly play the victim card and wallow in self-pity. You want respect? EARN IT. How do you do that? We've already told you. Now QUIT MAKING EXCUSES.
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She will also tell us happy anniversary about 600 more times and then the morning after our anniversary call us and msg us and want to know what we did and how proud she is of our M and how we are such a good couple and a bunch of really mushy marriage stuff.
No respect.
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It’s like she will put on tons of pressure on W all by herself weather I like it or not
No respect.
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And if I tell her my M is struggling...... Katie bar the door. She would call and msg my W prolly 20 times a day and try to fix our M for us.
No respect.
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Another stander. I just saw your post. Telling my mom that anything is wrong with my M word be terrible. She will not listen to me. She would just destroy my M for me.
