I have heard that book talked about here. I need to get it. I think that is what I’m going to do. I wouldn’t trust my mom to watch my S anyway.
I’m just upset because it’s going to force an anniversary convo between W and I. And I was planning on just a quaint “happy anniversary “ the morning of then off to work then play that evening by ear.
My mom will ask why and then she will pry and then pry some more then she will tell me I am a bad son and remind me of how great a mother she was and then tell me how her kids are awful to her. Then when she hangs up with me she will start blowing up Ws phone and asking questions and prying for info from her and wanting to know how our M is and going crazy on my W
She will also tell us happy anniversary about 600 more times and then the morning after our anniversary call us and msg us and want to know what we did and how proud she is of our M and how we are such a good couple and a bunch of really mushy marriage stuff.
It’s like she will put on tons of pressure on W all by herself weather I like it or not
And if I tell her my M is struggling...... Katie bar the door. She would call and msg my W prolly 20 times a day and try to fix our M for us.
And we don’t even want to talk to her in the phone. Let alone see her
Another stander. I just saw your post. Telling my mom that anything is wrong with my M word be terrible. She will not listen to me. She would just destroy my M for me.
