Yes, give up trying to get your W back. You can't control her. You worrying about trying to get her back is hurting your chances of possibly getting her back. You need to work or yourself and put all your energy into gaining self-respect back.
Don't give up on your W. Give up the need to want to control trying to get her back. Getting her back is not your number one priority or it shouldn't be. Your number 1 priority is you.
Man, I just went back and reread your thread, from the moment you have came here, you have been given the same advice, focus on you, your WW is very disrespectful.
You haven't used a bit of advice and at this point, it seems to me that you are writing and not reading or applying the concepts given by the VETS or the site.
Your are so worried about her actions that your reactions are all over the place. You need to detach, detach, detach. I think you need to start there. You are way to attached. Everything see does, draws a reaction out of you. A person that is detached would not care about a person actions that's disrespecting them. Your WW is disrespecting you, because you are allowing her too. Walk away from her when she goes into a fit.
When you get in the bed and she leaves, let her. Take your own pillow and cover to the bed. The moment you stop reacting to her craziness the moment your respect will start to return.
Keep posting!!!!
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
