Terrible decision curtis to try and control her with the OM boundary.
Steve, the boundary was not to control her, it was to protect myself. I went through hell when she was living with me and contacting OM in front of me. I was willing to help out the other family, but not willing to put up with crap that affects my emotions. The result, she has respected my boundary and left her phone in the car the past two nights.
Something has changed, it could be temporary, but I’ll expound on my update about last night.
Man up. Be AMOAWL. And getting upset about her texting or messaging someone is not it. You act like she was screen sharing on a big screen TV as she messaged. If you are talking about always being on her phone, so what? We've all been through that. One of the biggest problems LBSs make is focusing on the wrong things.
And deep down, whether you want to admit it or not, it is about control.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
