I still don’t fully understand how to earn her respect back besides not letting her put me out of the bed or house
When she starts berating you or calling you names, simply and calmly state "I will not tolerate disrespect." And walk away.
Start doing things that COMMAND respect. Do not verbally demand it. That is what GAL and detachment do. As well as certain 180s. Think of it as becoming an alpha male. You need to be a little selfish, focus on you. Forget about her.
YOU CANNOT NICE YOUR W BACK TO MR.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
