That certainly stings. But again, nothing surprising from a person in MLC. Landmark dates, holidays, etc... have absolutely no meaning to them during this time. She is in a teenage mindset and it may just be a way of acting out to get back at you. Remember, in her mind you caused all of this because she has suppressed her inner demons and projected them onto you. In reality you didn't cause any of it. Remember that throughout this process, because you are nowhere close to the end. These scars will eventually help you to become a much stronger person. Stay strong and keep doing as you are doing.