Its not about acting like you don't need her. Its about moving your attention from trying to change her, fix the MR, to focusing on yourself.
All you need to do is take a step back, evaluate yourself, and work on yourself. Thats it. What behaviors have you recognized that contributed to your 50% of the relationship failure? Work on those. What can you do to improve yourself?
Read self-help books, dress differently, workout etc.
What can you do to make yourself happy and keep your focus off of your MR and your WW? You can GAL. Do things that make you happy. Do things that fulfill your day.
You are not trying to punish her. You are showing her that you respect yourself and that you understand that you will be a good man with her or without her.
It is very counter-intuitive. You want to approach her and fix it and talk and go into super husband mode. You need to fight those urges and ONLY focus on yourself.
M:16 T:21 H(me) 38 WW: 38 S11 D16 D19 Red Flags of A: March 2018 ILYBNILWY: August 4, 2018 Moved out of MBR: September 24, 2018 BD/Confirmation of A: October 31, 2018 D Filed: March 27, 2019
