Do you understand how your W feels at all? Do you know you have the power to change the way she feels? Drop the rope. Forgive her. Forgive her some more. Forgive yourself. Do not argue with her. Set her free. DROP THE ROPE.
You are not listing to her. You are arguing with her. If you love her, you will stop arguing. You will listen to understand her.
I was completely ready for MsR2C to spew her hatred to me...it never came. Do not push your wife further away.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712