I hope everything carried over to this one. But i feel like i’m not doing anything right, i want to be a man and stand up to her so she’ll respect me, but i also want to repair things if at all possible (i know i need to do it for me, but i can’t help myself) she called me those names after i said no to her. When i stand up to her and say no she says i’m acting crazy snd out of control by telling her no and that i’m not doing that.. i still feel her saying things just to hurt me so i understand the crap test and don’t believe any of what she says. It’s everything else i need help clearing up. How do i implement everything without going too far? Can i still do stuff for her, without her asking me to do it, if that’s what i want to do? What is a man in a marriage supposed to be like, especially one who is trying to repair his marriage?
Last edited by job; 07/30/1903:16 PM. Reason: added link to previous thread
