Terrible decision curtis to try and control her with the OM boundary. First, you have no way to enforce that boundary. What are you going to do demand she show her phone to you on a regular interval?? I continue to see LBSs struggle with trying to control their WAS/WS. You can't. And when you try you cement to the WAS/WS that what they are doing is the right decision. Most WAS/WS are rebelling against control, especially WWs!! Imagine if you just agreed to letting her stay there with the kids and friends' kids? Imagine how much further you would have gotten, especially since it never came to fruition anyway!

The other reason you trying to control her is a bad idea, because WWs especially want what is forbidden. By forbidding her to do that, it makes her want to do it more. If she ever stays at your house again, you can bet she will contact him to spite you.

As far as this: I'm probably not following DB techniques so well right now

ALWAYS BE DBING!

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018